Tips for Helping Your Kids Keep Their Rooms Organized

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Today I wanted to share with you some thoughts about helping your kids keep their rooms organized.

This is my 13 year old daughter’s bedroom.  We redid it about two years ago, and it still looks like this now.

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Now, I am not going to mislead you, it doesn’t really look like this.  Right now her bed is not made and she has stuff on top of the lockers and I am pretty sure there is laundry on the floor.

I am not talking about clean – you know the stuff, that if they took fifteen minutes, it would be all addressed.  I am talking about keeping it organized so it is possible for them to catch up with the cleaning in around 15 minutes.

I shared with you last week how we recently did a major purge in my 11 year old’s room.  This was a purge of epic proportions and it was hard.

Not to make excuses, but this wasn’t all her fault.  When we redid the office last year, a lot of the extra furniture got put in her room.  Space was tight.  She had some bad habits – and it got bad.  To the point where she asked for help.

We didn’t set her up for success.

The highlight during all of that was that while my younger daughter and I were working on her room, my older daughter decided to get her room in shape as well.  It made me realize that she knew something really important – she knew how to purge and she knew how to organize.

I began to realize that if I just used the same principals that I used with my older daughter, my younger daughter could figure out how to keep things in shape easier.

Sometimes it is hard to realize that it is something that should be taught. 

I think there are two components to setting kids up for success in their rooms – first, it starts with setting up the room right and then it is the habits we teach them.

Here are some of the tricks we use to get and to keep their rooms organized.

Tip 1: Think Outside of Dressers

Consider options other than dressers.  My kids struggle with keeping drawers organized.  They go digging through for what they want and in the process pull everything else in the drawer apart.

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One of the best decision we made was purchasing the white lockers from Ikea.  They are four separate units.   She uses two of them for clothes and two of them for “stuff”.  They are also magnetic so she has magnetic hooks on the sides for belts and puts pictures, etc on the inside and a few on the inside.

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Of course, lockers won’t work for everyone’s room.  Closet units with shelves or an armoire are also an option for this.  I think the key is to try options without drawers.

Tip 2: Use Containers and Bins – Even Inside Drawers and Shelves

 Which brings me to my next point.  One of the reason the lockers work is because she also has bins and boxes to keep things grouped together.  She has purses in one, scarves, etc.  It allows her to just pull out what she needs, find it and then put the bin back.

It also works with all of her small “girlie” stuff.  This drawer was out of control, but now she has everything group by likeness and size.  When she opens the drawer, it doesn’t all fall over.  By not having it overstuffed it also makes it easier for her to put things away.

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This also works well in closets with clothing items, especially the small stuff.

Tip 3: Help Them Find Ways to Group

For some kids, figuring out how to group like items is easy.  For some kids, it doesn’t come as naturally.  Helping your kids go through all of their stuff and finding common themes will not only help them now but in the future.

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Of course, its also okay to teach them that sometimes there are some things that don’t really have a group, and they are just “stuff”.

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Tip 4: Don’t Overload Their Shelves and Drawers

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When we worked on my daughter’s room last week, one thing we majorly paired down was her clothing.

The fact was she had too much.

She had hand me downs from friends, from her sister and then my need for her to have some “new” things, her closet and drawers were overflowing.

We tried on everything.  If it didn’t fit, wasn’t comfortable, she didn’t really like it or she had multiples, it was donated.  The key goal was to get her drawers (until we find another option for her) and her shelves so that they were not full.  By having a more modest amount of items in each space she was able to see easier what she wanted and she could easily put it back.

Try to set them up for success by not having everything overflowing.

Tip 5: Teach Them How to Purge

This is something I started when my kids were young.  With things as simple as birthday cards.  You can’t keep every single birthday card given to you in your life and expect to have room for it.  We keep the special cards, the ones that have meaning, a signature from a relative that maybe doesn’t often sign things.

I will be the first to admit that I have emotional connections to “things”.  But by picking and choosing what stays and goes, you have room to use, keep and display what you really love instead of being burdened by too much “stuff”.

Go through things together.  Talk through what to keep and what to get rid of.  It is not a bad thing to push them out of their comfort zone.  With a little give and take you will get a sense of what they can handle.  With a little push on some, give in easy on others.  They will see that they are not going to loose everything.

Of course, no one know your child better than you so pace them where you feel they are ready.

I have a little secret.  I never get rid of what we purge right away.  I always set it aside for a period of time.  That way if something is really bothering them that they let go of, we can talk about it and possibly retrieve it.  Although, they have never asked for anything back.

The good news is, as they get older, they become more comfortable with the process and can start to do it on their own.  That is a skill they can use always.

Tip 6: Not Everything You Keep Has to Go In Their Rooms

 As I said, I love sentimental things in my home.  And I actually want to teach my children that there is value in keeping things from the childhood either for the memories or to pass down to their own children.

But that doesn’t mean it all needs to be on display or even in their rooms.

My girls (and I) have a memory box in the top of their closet.  After holidays and birthdays, they have a place to go with the cards and stuff that they want to save.  They also have a bin in the attic with some of their baby items such as blankets and special clothing items.

That way, when something is meant to saved and treasured, there is a place to go with it.

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Books are a tough one for me.  We have recently started keeping a bin of special books in the attic as well.  These are the ones that they really love, are part of a series or that we read together all the time (Pajama Time anyone?).  We do a quick sort – keep, donate, attic is the criteria.  They read so much that if we kept everything it would take over their rooms.

Having these memory bins and boxes gives them a sense of security that was important to them is being saved.

Tip 7: It is a Process

I don’t want to misguide you.  I am not under some disbelief that my daughters’ rooms will never get out of hand again.  It probably will.

And when it does, I will help them again.

But each time I will help them a little less and put the responsibility more to them.

Each child is going to get better at this over time, but their version of “better” may not be exactly what you had hoped for (I am reminding myself of this as well).

As they get older, they will naturally want to do things more independently and will start to take on more and more on their own.  It is up to us to keep guiding them without “doing it for them”, encouraging them and most importantly, being patient.

The bright light – my older daughter announced at the end of all our organizing that she is going to start doing her own laundry!

So, how about you?  Do you have any tips or tricks to helping your kids stay organized?

I would love for you to share in the comments – we can all use all the help we can get!

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  1. My 3 girls are all grown now. I wish i would have made them clean at an earlier age. But being a stay at home Mom, I did it for them. They tend to be on the messy side (perhaps take after my husband). Anyway, it didn’t matter how many bins or baskets or labels, special hangers or totes I bought it never seemed to help. Kuddos to you for starting this process early and Good job to your girls for keeping it going! Great tips!

  2. I was about to write that I think girls are innately organizers and want things in place, and that boys just don’t care (I’ve seen my grandson’s man cave), but then I thought back to when my daughter was young and realized it wasn’t an innate thing for her, BUT, I need to acknowledge that the size of the room has a major impact on trying to be organized–her room was very small, and she too had too much “stuff”. I love the idea of the lockers, it makes a lot of sense. I also think purging is important (like I should talk?!); it’s a good exercise for kids to learn that if they’re not using it, someone else probably needs it–you can’t teach giving too early. Be thankful tho, if your little one, or teenager, doesn’t hoard food under his/her bed like some little girl I remember from many years ago! Thanks, Laura, for more very insightful advice.

  3. One hint that worked for sons with lots of t-shirts. Roll them and put in drawers. Easy to see, and surprisingly, I don’t remember that they were wrinkled. (If they were I always had that spray de-wrinkle stuff handy) Actually they rolled most everything even underwear.

  4. Great ideas! My daughter and I went through her room at Christmastime. We have several boxers and bags of things to get rid of. Sometimes it was harder for me than her!!

  5. It is so beautiful! I love the lockers..the storage is used to it’s fullest and that as we know – what kids need. Can’t seem to have enough. Have a great day!

  6. Great post, Laura! My favorite tip was to have the bins in the attic ready to place the memories. My children are adults now. When they were teenagers, they each had pretty spacious rooms. Everything got stuck on a shelf or in a drawer, or under their bed (you wouldn’t believe how much can fit under there!). When they were in college, we moved out of our old house. We had them come home to sort out what they wanted to keep. Not a good idea! With the emotions connected to the move, EVERYTHING became a treasure! I now am storing 17 bins of things that my daughter could not bare to let go! We need to purge after the purge!

  7. How can I store my daughters littlest pet shop homes? They are big and bulky, I’ve had them on the shelf and she can not reach them and it looks cluttered/messy.

  8. This is an ongoing battle in our house. We have been the most successful with my daughter, due largely to a lot of the tips you’ve mentioned here (e.g. using bins, purging). Just remember, it’s the maintenance phase that’s the hardest so once you help your kids get organized, work with them to make it a habit.

  9. I love this idea! What a cute bedroom. I am constantly trying to keep my girls’ rooms organized and it feels like a never ending job! I think I will def. try the containers inside the drawers idea!
    Thanks

  10. I keep any shirt in my drawer “standing up” so that they don’t get buried. In my drawers it works to fold the shirts into quarters; this allows me to do a quick scan of what is there and grab what I need.